Are you ready
to Get Your Power Back
& Own Your Life & Relationships?
Bridging the Disconnect
Begins When You Do. YOU
A 12-week coaching experience to breakthrough the disconnect with yourself, others, and your purpose by learning how to lead yourself well.
Create the future you long for
by becoming the authentic version of YOU.
whatever it takes
Some days this is YOU...
You juggle a lot and you do whatever it takes to make things happen. You're a pillar of strength & the one everyone relies on to get things done.
You also know the familiar feelings of being overwhelmed, stressed out, and frustrated. Your schedule has taken over. You and your spouse haven't connected for days (or weeks). And you struggle to be present with your kids - in spite of being their Uber Driver, Provider, Meal Maker, Homework Checker, & Life Planner.
When you're working, you feel you should be playing.
When you're playing, you feel guilty for not working.
You're driven to do more and be more -
as a spouse, parent, and in your career -
BUT IT NEVER SEEMS TO BE ENOUGH.
You feel irritated with everyone. Overreact to everything.
And disconnect from it all - by finding MORE TO DO.
Your motto of "just do it" is killing you and you have bought the cultural way of "doing whatever it takes" hook, line, & sinker.
This is a recipe for recurring guilt & secret resentment,
with a side of relationship havoc.
It's no surprise you're
exhausted & unhappy.
Some days this is YOU...
You juggle a lot and you do whatever it takes to make things happen. You're a pillar of strength & the one everyone relies on to get things done.
You also know the familiar feelings of being overwhelmed, stressed out, and frustrated. Your schedule has taken over. You and your spouse haven't connected for days (or weeks). And you struggle to be present with your kids - in spite of being their Uber Driver, Provider, Meal Maker, Homework Checker, & Life Planner.
When you're working,
you feel you should be playing.
When you're playing,
you feel guilty for not working.
You're driven to do more and be more - as a spouse, parent, and in your career
BUT IT NEVER SEEMS TO BE ENOUGH.
You feel irritated with everyone. Overreact to everything. And disconnect from it all - by finding MORE TO DO.
Your motto of "just do it" is killing you and you have bought the cultural way of "doing whatever it takes" hook, line, & sinker.
This is a recipe for recurring guilt & secret resentment, with a side of relationship havoc.
It's no surprise you're
exhausted & unhappy.
So was I
I was an addict and "doing" had become my drug of choice.
Hustling to be productive and purposeful were an easy "win" that instantly validated me and temporarily warded off the agonizing feelings of failure or fear. The high I got from solving, fixing, serving, or helping others was how I powered through things that felt out of my control.
I was full-on addicted to “doing” as a way to numb the loneliness and ignore the growing disconnect I felt within myself and with others.
My flurry of activity and over-responsibility was my desperate attempt to fix outside of me what I could not reconcile inside of me.
I was spiraling out of control over things I couldn't control.
And using productivity to numb and cope.
You may be thinking...
"OK then, so what am I supposed to do?"
(Keep reading. I won't leave you hanging.)
So was I
I was an addict and "doing" had become my drug of choice.
Hustling to be productive and purposeful were an easy "win" that instantly validated me and temporarily warded off the agonizing feelings of failure or fear. The high I got from solving, fixing, serving, or helping others was how I powered through things that felt
out of my control.
I was full-on addicted to “doing” as a way to numb the loneliness and ignore the growing disconnect I felt within myself and with others.
My flurry of activity and over-responsibility was my desperate attempt to fix outside of me what I could not reconcile inside of me.
I was spiraling out of control over things I couldn't control.
And using productivity & helping others to numb and cope.
You may be thinking...
"OK then, so what am I supposed to do?"
(Keep reading. I won't leave you hanging.)
Other days, this is YOU...
When all that you're "doing" doesn't work to stop the repeating arguments with your spouse, bridge the disconnect with your kids, or ease the overload, you shut down, numb out, and isolate.
No amount of people-pleasing, performing, or being perfect calms the chaos, so you swing the pendulum to the other side:
PROCRASTINATION & PASSIVITY
And in today's culture,
that's called "being."
Numbing out with Netflix binges, living for Friday, or hiding behind your cell phone, the next vacation, & drinks with friends to avoid the reality of things you can't manage, fix, or change seems safer.
And heck! Everyone tells you that you deserve to slow down and rest, so why not?
The problem is that "just be" has replaced "just do" and has now become the new guise for avoidance.
Other days, this is YOU...
When all that you're "doing" doesn't work to stop the repeating arguments with your spouse, bridge the disconnect with your kids, or ease the overload, you shut down, numb out, and isolate.
No amount of people-pleasing, performing, or being perfect calms the chaos, so you swing the pendulum to the other side:
PROCRASTINATION
& PASSIVITY
And in today's culture,
that's called "being."
Numbing out with Netflix binges, living for Friday, or hiding behind your cell phone, the next vacation, & drinks with friends to avoid the reality of things you can't manage, fix, or change seems safer.
And heck! Everyone tells you that you deserve to slow down and rest, so why not?
The problem is that "just be" has replaced "just do" and has now become the new guise for avoidance.
Swinging between these two extremes as a way to avoid or manage what feels out of your control
creates internal & relational chaos.
You trade the short-term relief of AVOIDANCE
for the long-term pain of DISCONNECTION.
I call this 'The Crazy Cycle'
Many a brave man & woman, much like yourself, have unsuccessfully tried to outsmart it or ignore it.
Swinging between these two extremes as a way to avoid or manage what feels out of your control
creates internal & relational chaos.
You trade the short-term relief of AVOIDANCE
for the long-term pain of DISCONNECTION.
I call this 'The Crazy Cycle'
Many a brave man & woman, much like yourself,
have unsuccessfully tried to outsmart it or ignore it.
The One Question You Need to Ask Yourself:
is what you're doing working?
You and I both know the answer.
It's Not.
- You are a podcast-junky
- You may have tried counseling
- You consume books & information
- You attend conferences or weekend intensives
But has it brought you the RESULTS you long for?
IMAGINE A LIFE WHERE YOU KNOW THE KEYS TO SHOW UP POWERFULLY TO
LOVE
LIVE
LEAD
FIERCELY
AUTHENTICALLY
COURAGEOUSLY
IMAGINE A LIFE WHERE YOU KNOW THE KEYS TO SHOW UP POWERFULLY TO
LOVE
FIERCELY
LIVE
AUTHENTICALLY
LEAD
COURAGEOUSLY
Where all your Do.'ing flows out of who you are committed to
Where all your Do.'ing flows out of who you are committed to
The Do. WIT Collective Can Show You How!
A 90-day group coaching Collective to equip you to breakthrough the disconnect with yourself, others, and your purpose by learning how to lead yourself well.
The Do. True YOU Lab will empower you to Do. whatever it takes to create the future you long for by becoming the authentic version of YOU.
Application OPEN for 2023
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If you're wondering...
who this group is for?
If you're wondering...
who this group is for?
Since I’ve been in the middle of The Crazy Cycle deeper than anyone else, I think I can say with CONFIDENCE:
This group is for YOU.
If you want to trade out stress and over-reactions and create a life fueled by peace and contentment, this group is for you.
If you want to discover your most authentic self apart from all you do, this group is for you.
If you’ve ever been terrified that you can't stop the cycles of disconnect in your family or closest relationships, this group is for you.
If you need resilience and courage in the midst of difficult circumstances, this group is for you.
If you want to discover the art of opening up possibilities so that you're never stuck again, this group is for you.
If you want to be free to take off the mask of having it all together, this group is for you.
If you want to own your life - time, schedule, money, emotions, relationships, and actions - in a new way, this group is for you.
If you long to shift from 'doing' & 'being' enough to BECOMING who you are, this group is for you.
If you've ever imagined what life would be like if you learned how to fiercely & lovingly stand for the future life you long for, this group is for you.
If you are tired of fear and control ruling you're reactions and decisions, this group is for you.
Since I’ve been in the middle of The Crazy Cycle deeper than anyone else, I think I can say with CONFIDENCE:
This group is for YOU.
If you want to trade out stress and over-reactions and create a life fueled by peace and contentment, this group is for you.
If you want to discover your most authentic self apart from all you do, this group is for you.
If you’ve ever been terrified that you can't stop the cycles of disconnect in your family or closest relationships, this group is for you.
If you need resilience and courage in the midst of difficult circumstances, this group is for you.
If you want to discover the art of opening up possibilities so that you're never stuck again, this group is for you.
If you want to be free to take off the mask of having it all together, this group is for you.
If you want to own your life - time, schedule, money, emotions, relationships, and actions - in a new way, this group is for you.
If you long to shift from 'doing' & 'being' enough to BECOMING who you are, this group is for you.
If you've ever imagined what life would be like if you learned how to fiercely & lovingly stand for the future life you long for, this group is for you.
If you are tired of fear and control ruling you're reactions and decisions, this group is for you.
Create the future you long for by becoming the authentic version of YOU
Order the Chaos
Skyrocket your self-awareness and increase your emotional intelligence as we uncover the exact cycle that has kept you stuck in draining relationship dynamics. Learn to ground yourself - even in chaos - and live with a vision that will create unprecedented results.
You'll leave The Lab peaceful, & empowered to Do. life and challenging circumstances differently.
Reclaim YOU
Unleash your self-confidence and get free of limiting beliefs & toxic mindsets that are unconsciously driving you. Unlock your full potential and next-level possibilities to create deeply connected relationships & fulfilling and abundant work as you let go of fear and control & realign with your God-given design.
You'll leave The Lab powerfully & authentically YOU.
Reinvent Relationships
Deepen your self-leadership and gain new strength to show up to your life different: committed, clear, & confident. How you currently relate to things (money, time, tech, etc.) and people (spouse, kids, in-laws) is creating the results you're getting. Reinvent how you relate, transform your life.
You'll leave The Lab with tools to transform your relationships - starting with you.
12 men maximum per group
Wait List open now for 2023 groups
All training modules, tools, growth work provided
12 women maximum per group
Wait List open now for 2023 groups
All training modules, tools, growth work provided
Order the Chaos
Skyrocket your self-awareness and increase your emotional intelligence as we uncover the exact cycle that has kept you stuck in draining relationship dynamics. Learn to ground yourself - even in chaos - and live with a vision that will create unprecedented results.
You'll leave The Lab peaceful, & empowered to Do. life and challenging circumstances differently.
Reclaim YOU
Unleash your self-confidence and get free of limiting beliefs & toxic mindsets that are unconsciously driving you. Unlock your full potential and next-level possibilities to create deeply connected relationships & fulfilling and abundant work as you let go of fear and control & realign with your God-given design.
You'll leave The Lab powerfully & authentically YOU.
Reinvent Relationships
Deepen your self-leadership and gain new strength to show up to your life different: committed, clear, & confident. How you currently relate to things (money, time, tech, etc.) and people (spouse, kids, in-laws) is creating the results you're getting. Reinvent how you relate, transform your life.
You'll leave The Lab with tools to transform your relationships - starting with you.
12 women maximum per group
Kicks Off Wednesday, September 7
All training modules, tools, growth work provided
Group coaching via Zoom Weds. @10:00am CST
Meet as a group Wednesdays. Sept. 7 - Nov.30 (w/ Thanksgiving week off)
12 men maximum per group
Kicks Off Tuesday, September 6
All training modules, tools, growth work provided
Group coaching via Zoom Tues. @7:00pm CST
Meet as a group Tuesdays. Sept. 6 - Nov.29 (w/ Thanksgiving week off)
what could be possible...
"I no longer believe other moms have it all figured out and that I can't ask for help."
what if there is more...
"Prior to coaching with Jenni Rae I called myself a Chaos Coordinator. Do. WIT has changed how I do everything!"
what if there is more...
"Prior to coaching with Jenni Rae I called myself a Chaos Coordinator. Do. WIT has changed how I do everything!"
what if you can be the change...
"I have a Master's in Counseling & consumed podcasts & books. Nothing worked to give me real tools to shift the dynamic with my son & career."
become the change you want to see
Get Started with the Plan That Is Right for You
Pay In Full Option
$2850
(Save $250 by paying in full)
1-Time Payment
3-Pay Option
$1015
3 Mo. Payments
4-Pay Option
$775
4 Mo. Payments
In The Do. True YOU Lab You'll Get...
20+ Video Modules
24-7 online accessible modules that coach you on the exact tools & mindsets needed to reclaim your authentic self & reinvent your relationships.
Breakthrough Toolbox
An entire toolbox awaits you within the Do. True YOU Lab. Having practical tools you can apply in the kitchen, the car, or the office opens the possibility of breakthrough anytime, anywhere.
Vision Roadmap
Clear vision is the start of creating the future you long for. This isn't your typical "vision board" exercise, but an invaluable roadmap to use over and over to create daily direction to your desired future.
The Commitment Ladder
Bust through the your fears by learning a whole new way of approaching commitment and follow through. This entirely new approach will free you to stay in your lane and -
The Crazy Cycle Blueprint
Discover the 4-step cycle that is underlying your overwhelm, overreactions, and avoidance. We will reverse-engineer these steps in your own life to get you to a breakthrough.
The True YOU Framework
When things get tough, where do you turn? Fear and control have probably been your M.O. up until now. The True YOU Framework will be an anchor to keep you grounded n any storm.
Weekly Group Coaching
Receive personalized coaching live on zoom every week specific to your needs around each module. Glean from the powerful experiences of others as they share and are coached.
Do. WIT DNA
The Do. WIT DNA is at the core of everything we teach & coach here. You will get the foundational keys to the Do. WIT method of transformation as a part of your DNA.
The Do. WIT Collective
You gain life-time friendships by journeying together with other like-minded Do. WIT Collective Women or Men. Be sharpened, encouraged, & called up to the next level.
what if you can be happy...
"I was so tired of the way things were. I needed something practical that could get me real results."
what if you invested in you...
"Working with Jenni Rae gave me time back. Intentionally investing in myself & changed how I am with myself & also my family."
what if your legacy is waiting...
"I was so tired of the way things were. I needed something practical that could get me real results."
what if your legacy is waiting...
"I was so tired of the way things were. I needed something practical that could get me real results."
Do WIT Men's Group
Wait List for January 2023
Contact Nathan Oates
for details and to join!
WILL I GET RESULTS?
Hear From More Graduates
From Suffocated to Breakthrough
"This program revealed that for 12 years I'd been suffocating under the shame of a business loss, believing I was a failure. As a problem-solver, it was life-changing to finally have real tools to walk me out of the shame."
Laurie Roe
My Pathway to Healing
"As an athlete, mom of 4, and business owner, I have a high capacity to handle a lot, but always felt frustrated. I went from feeling "never enough" and broken, believing other moms had it figured out, to a clear path of healing."
Beth Matchie
I Found Myself Again
"Having Jenni Rae as a coach & guide has been a dream. She perfectly balanced honesty, while providing the healthy challenge and push that I needed to find myself apart from my many roles as a wife, mom, teacher, & homesteader."
Meg Britton
do. what it takes
From Never Enough to Balanced
"Juggling 5 kids, homeschool & a business, I was stressed. overwhelmed, and felt like I was always coming up short. This program gave me practical ways to take time for me, find balance, and go deeper in my relationships."
Shar Valdez
My Biz Grew by 42%
"Working with Jenni Rae to uncover the viscous cycle of defeat I was stuck in freed me to do more & be more than I dreamed I was capable of in my business & marriage. I'm no longer afraid to go after what I want."
Jenny Hogue
From Eggshells to Empowered
"I was the ultimate people pleaser, who wasn’t pleasing anyone. I discovered The Crazy Cycle Blueprint at my breaking point in my relationship with my daughter. I've taken back control of my life & am finally free."
Beth Baker
Hey Friend, I know firsthand how disconnected from yourself you can become when you are so busy taking care of everyone and everything else.
I'm Jenni Rae, founder of Do. WIT and a high-capacity woman with my hands in a million things. I built & ran multiple 6-figure businesses, while homeschooling, traveling, speaking, and trying to be a good wife, daughter, and friend. I was strong, intentional, and responsible.
And also...I was dying inside.
My fear of upsetting others or letting them down if I didn't do enough or do it right ruled my life and choices. I was driven by "shoulds" & "have tos" and no longer knew what I wanted and needed.
I was tired of the cycle in my life so I spent years and thousands of dollars to identify the exact thing that was keeping me stuck in exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection with those I loved most.
I pray the Do. True YOU Lab brings you as much freedom, peace, and joy as it has for me.
Training Course Outline
Have More Questions?
For any questions you have regarding The Do. True YOU Lab, contact our customer experience team at [email protected].
We would love to assist you!
Or book a complimentary 20 minute Discovery Call to explore how joining the Do. WIT Collective and our next Group Coaching Lab could be right for you.
About Jenni Rae Oates
Founder of Do. WIT Coaching
Jenni Rae is a coach, entrepreneur, speaker, and mom of 4, raising 3 this side of heaven. She is married to Nathan Oates and they reside in Franklin, TN.
For two decades she has coached thousands of women to launch and scale successful home-based businesses while juggling the demands of family life. She launched Do. WIT Coaching with a mission to help individuals reinvent their relationship to work and family and create a life they love and a lasting legacy. She helps people break free from chaos, reclaim their true self, and create a life of incredible peace and purpose.
- Coached and Mentored Top Network Marketing Industry Leaders
- 15 Years Business Consulting and Transformational Coaching Experience
- Founder of Multiple 6-Figure Businesses
